Prepared by: Entry Tep ,Monday, Feb 26,
2018
There are some girls who
have no problem going up to the person they like and flirting aggressively until he/she is just as
obsessed with her as she is with him – if not more. These girls aren’t
terrified to make the first move, the thought of rejection doesn’t paralyze
them, and they don’t spend a conversation blurting out awkward things and then trying to backtrack.
I’m shy, and I always have been shy. I’ve gotten a lot
more outgoing than I used to be, but I still describe myself as a shy person.
I’ve never made the first move, ever, and when I was single, the idea of a
first date made me want to crawl under a rock. Trying to get the attention of
my crush was a mix of embarrassing and pathetic moments
that usually ended in him hooking up with another girl because he had no clue
how I felt. So, it’s safe to know that I know what it’s like to be around the
person you like when you’re shy. I wrote this for all the other quiet girls out
there.
Here are 15 things all shy girls
do when they have a crush on someone:
1. Stare at your crush until
they notice you, then look away really quickly and act like you weren’t just
staring.
2. Wait for your crush to talk
to you rather than approach them, even when you’re dying to talk.
3. Blush the entire time you’re
talking to your crush even though you have nothing to be blushing about.
4. Go places you know your
crush will be at, not trying to stalk him/her, but just in the hopes that
he/she will talk to you.
5. Hold eye contact for a few
seconds because you read you should do that, then freak out about it.
6. Talk to him/her online a lot
but when you see them in person, clam up completely.
7. Say something extremely
awkward. All the time. In every conversation.
8. Laugh or giggle when you’re
at a loss for words, even if it doesn’t make sense.
9. Try to think of something
witty and smart and wonderful to say when talking, but actually think of it
three hours after you spoke.
10. Make sure you’re in a group
setting with him/her because it’s easier to talk that way.
11. Refuse to flirt unless
you’re almost positive he/she is flirting with you.
12. Only tell him/her any kind
of true feelings through text messages.
13. Fidget like a manic when
talking to him/her, whether you’re tapping your feet, playing with your hair,
or cracking your knuckles.
14. Get to a point where you
avoid him/her because you’re so nervous.
15. Tell everyone how you feel
about you crush… except, you know, your crush.
Are you a shy girl? Can you
relate to these? What can you relate to the most? What did I forget? Tell me in
the comments.
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